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The S.I.G.N.A.L. Protocol™

A One-Sided Strategy for Marital Re-Connection

You Can Save Your Marriage—Even If You’re the Only One Trying. 

A Revolutionary Approach to Resolving Conflict and Rebuilding Trust for the Motivated Spouse.

When your marriage is in SOS mode, neutrality disappears. There is no such thing as a "meaningless" interaction. When you are dealing with a difficult spouse—someone lost in a midlife crisis, guarded after (or during) infidelity, or locked in a cycle of silence—every signal counts.

The "new way" to resolve conflict isn't about waiting for them to change. It’s about realizing that you are the broadcaster. If you change the signal, you eventually force the receiver to retune. That’s where my S.I.G.N.A.L. Protocol™ comes in. Made of six key pillars, it can guide you clearly and confidently, so that you send out only those signals that can draw your partner back to you.

Marriage Books that Mean Business*

*Knowledge is power, and private knowledge can give you an advantage if you’re dealing with an uncooperative or untrustworthy spouse. To avoid a book showing up on your doorstep or a shared device, download the bookseller’s reading app for iOS (iPhone/iPad) or Android and read on whatever device you’re on. All major retailers (e.g. Google Play Books, Amazon/Kindle, Barnes & Noble, Apple, etc.) offer this fast, free feature. You can even choose a retailer that you don’t have a current account with so the book doesn’t appear in a shared library.

While each Marriage SOS book comprehensively tackles issues like infidelity, midlife crises and poor communication, you can gain the additional advantage of applying The S.I.G.N.A.L. Protocol™ as an overlay framework to each one.

Tap the icon to learn more about the protocol or click here.

One-on-One Intensive Phone Consults with the Author

Whether your marriage is facing a sudden crisis or the current state of affairs has been dragging on—and dragging you down—for a while now, the sooner you can acquire some new strategies to prompt a real change, the better.

Book a one-on-one 1-hour intensive phone consult with either Debra or Don. Together, you’ll dive in and see what can be done. Since the focus of this consult is on resolving, not rebooking, whoever you’re speaking with will strive to leave you with at least one “pivot-point” strategy—something that can begin to make a demonstrable change for the better in your situation. And all from the comfort of your car, couch or favorite park bench.

The Marriage SOS “Take a Day”

Stop wasting time googling out-of-context and fragmented advice generated by AI. Stop scouring endless blogs looking for free advice. Stop investing thousands of dollars in glossy but ultimately useless coaching packages stuffed with filler and recycled advice. Stop spinning your wheels and getting nowhere! It’s time to focus and move forward.