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The S.I.G.N.A.L. Protocol

A One-Sided Strategy for Marital Re-Connection

You Can Save Your Marriage—Even If You’re the Only One Trying. 

A Revolutionary At-Home Approach to Resolving Conflict and Rebuilding Commitment for the Motivated Spouse.

When your marriage is in SOS mode, there is no such thing as a "meaningless" interaction. When you are dealing with a difficult spouse—one who had (or is having) an affair or a midlife crisis, or who resorts to silence or defensiveness during communication… every signal counts.

The "new way" to resolve conflict isn't about waiting for them to change. It’s about realizing that you are the broadcaster. If you change the signal, you eventually force the receiver to retune. That’s where the S.I.G.N.A.L. Protocol™ comes in. Made of six key pillars, it can guide you clearly and confidently, so that you send out only those signals that can draw your partner back to you.

Next Steps - Identify the book that addresses your marital crisis, whether a husband’s midlife crisis, a past or ongoing affair, or poor communication and interactions.

  • Purchase the book discreetly - because knowledge is power, and private knowledge can give you an advantage if you’re dealing with an uncooperative or untrustworthy spouse. To avoid a book showing up on your doorstep or a shared device, download the bookseller’s reading app for iOS (iPhone/iPad) or Android and read on whatever device you’re on. All major retailers (e.g. Google Play Books, Amazon/Kindle, Barnes & Noble, Apple, etc.) offer this fast, free feature. You can even choose a retailer that you don’t have a current account with so the book doesn’t appear in a shared library

  • Work through the book’s comprehensive content and complete the Q&A’s at the end of each section for your “action plan”

  • Consult the S.I.G.N.A.L. Protocol™ Overlay for your book (available here at Marriage SOS, on the book’s page, as below)

book cover with a woman with her hand on her head, the title is The Shut-Out Wife

The Shut-Out Wife: Breaking Through Your Husband’s Midlife Crisis

A must-read book for any woman who feels shut out of her husband’s life due to his so-called midlife crisis, including a midlife affair or inappropriate friendship. This practical, candid and game-changing book is based on the bestselling Marriage SOS™ Online Crash Course Conquer His Midlife Crisis // Strategies for Wives.

Book cover titled "The Stubborn Affair: Dealing with Infidelity and a Spouse Who Won't End Their Affair". Features silhouettes of a man and woman back-to-back in blue and white tones with watercolor splashes.

The Stubborn Affair: Dealing With Infidelity and a Spouse Who Won’t End Their Affair

If your spouse had an affair, and if they’re being uncooperative or untrustworthy in its aftermath, you know there are few things as “stubborn” as an affair situation. This practical, plainspoken book gives you eye-opening insights and powerful strategies to handle all of this with clarity and confidence, thus helping you save your marriage.

book cover of two people arguing, the title is Stop Fighting to Get Along

Stop Fighting to Get Along: Practical, Painless Ways to Improve Communication, Interactions & Conflict Resolution Skills in Marriage.

This approach offer spouses a wealth of intelligent, creative strategies to improve their marriage. Show the world that you’re lovers, not fighters, with this ultimate guide to marital happiness.

The Marriage SOS “Take a Day”

A woman with curly hair is lying in bed, using a tablet. She has a blanket over her and is surrounded by breakfast items on a tray, including a cup of coffee, toast with a heart-shaped topping, and a pastry. There is also an open book next to her.

Stop wasting time googling out-of-context and fragmented advice. Stop scouring endless blogs looking for free advice. Stop investing thousands of dollars in glossy but ultimately useless coaching packages stuffed with filler and recycled advice. Stop spinning your wheels and getting nowhere!

It’s time to get back to basics, focus, and move forward. In 24 hours.

One-on-One Intensive Phone Consults with the Author

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Whether your marriage is facing a sudden crisis or the current state of affairs has been dragging on—and dragging you down—for a while now, the sooner you can acquire some new strategies to prompt a real change, the better.

Book a one-on-one 1-hour intensive phone consult with either Debra or Don. Together, you’ll dive in and see what can be done. Since the focus of this consult is on resolving, not rebooking, whoever you’re speaking with will strive to leave you with at least one “pivot-point” signal—something that can begin to make a demonstrable change for the better in your situation. And all from the comfort of your car, couch or favorite park bench.